You need to lose weight.
You need better clothes.
Don't even think about leaving the house without make-up.
Don't you dare age.
You're not sexy enough.
You aren't worth anything without ______.
I'm not questioning your intelligence. In the back of your mind, the idea that you might be letting a magazine define your worth probably seems outrageous. But is it really?
Studies done by the National Institute on Media and the Family show that largely due to the image of women portrayed on magazines (which is getting thinner and thinner, by the way), by age 13, 53% of girls in America are "unhappy with their bodies." By the age of 17, this number grows to 78%. Learn more here.
Take a look at what magazines call "beautiful."
There is nothing real about the counterfeit "beauty" that magazines are selling. Imitation beauty sells because it is cheap. True beauty comes from within, but unfortunately our culture is such that we worship physical appearance. Ironically, and I know this from personal experience, the more make-up you buy and the more fad diets you try, it is never enough. Why? Because you're trying to attain something that doesn't exist. Magazines and the media are trying to kill everything that makes you unique. They seek to strip you of your you-ness so that you become a shell, empty of life and joy and zeal and full of discontentment, jealousy, and hopelessness. If they can just do that, then they have you. Don't buy into it. Don't let them win. Don't trade your life for an airbrushed one.
I agree so much with your thoughts! Especially when you say the media is trying to stop us from being our unique selves. In today's society, women and men aren't portrayed as being modest anymore. Everything is so revealing. What ever happened to self worth and standards? There seems to be a shortage of it nowadays.
ReplyDeleteI couldn't agree with you more, Dani! When you point out magazines trying to victimize you, it makes total sense! Overall, everything you pointed out here is completely true about today's society. Who's really to judge what we should be? We are in full control of our lives, nobody else's regardless of circumstance! That's the bottom line.
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